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by Jeffry H. Larson
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Jossey-Bass (2000-05)
ISBN: 0787951447
EAN: 9780787951443
Dewy Decimal #: 306.81
Paperback: 256 pages
Edition: 1
SKU: 102608028
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: ...no markings or highlighting...minor wear on cover
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The fact is, some couples need more time to mature, some need to work through specific issues, and some should never be together. But how do you know? What factors add up to success-or failure-in a relationship? Author Jeffry Larson knows; in fact, he knows a lot about what predicts a happy marriage. Based on Larson's twenty-plus years of research and experience in marriage and family therapy, Should We Stay Together?debunks many time-honored myths as it provides couples with the tools they need to make better decisions and thoroughly explore every aspect of their relationship. From individual characteristics, idiosyncratic family histories, unresolved conflicts and needs, and combined strengths and weaknesses, this step-by-step scientific method for relationship evaluation-based on the highly accurate RELATE premarital assessment questionnaire-will help couples understand the specific traits that predict a satisfying-or disastrous-relationship.
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Amazon.com Review
Falling in love is the easy part; finding a truly compatible mate takes know-how. Drawing from a 10-year study of premarital characteristics that predict later marital satisfaction, author Jeffry H. Larson presents an excellent resource for couples considering marriage. Opening chapters debunk the many myths associated with happy relationships, everything from searching for soul mates to obeying the whims of the heart. Larson points to three key factors that affect all partnerships: contexts (each person's background), individual traits, and couple traits; he then shows how similarities and differences in each category lead to success or failure in marriage. By far the most intriguing aspect of this combination textbook and workbook is its series of checklists, discussion questions, and short tests designed for assessing one's relationship. Working alone or with their partners, readers can rather quickly determine the potential long-term satisfaction of their current relationships, based on the 24 key characteristics outlined in Larson's Relationship Evaluation (RELATE) questionnaire. Brief questions regarding similarity of values, communication skills, and conflict response patterns receive points that correspond to an evaluation scale. Larson concludes each exercise with plenty of clear, descriptive support material so participants can better interpret their test scores. For those who uncover a few bumps in their RELATE triangle, a final chapter offers an abundance of self-help and couples' therapy books, tapes, and workshops. --Liane Thomas
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Excellent resource for important decision
Rating  (5)
Date: 2008-09-04
1 out of 1 customers found this reveiw helpful
While this book was recommended to me during a marital crisis (which led to my divorce), I consider the book's title to be somewhat misleading. It's intended audience is young couples considering _when_ to get married. It discusses many factors which are important for a successful (read "long-lived") marriage, especially issues that should be worked out before the wedding. It uses quantitative research to identify these factors.
While it was extremely helpful when helping me to understand why I was in the situation I found myself, it's real power became obvious to me when I recommended it to a friend. She was engaged to be married in a couple months and was getting a bad case of cold feet. It was clear to me that, while she had several legitimate concerns, it was not clear if the marriage should happen or not. She read the book, cover-to-cover, in about a week. She also managed to get her fiance to read it. After this, they decided that they were not ready to be married _but_ they would be some day (a key concept in the book - not ready now does not mean not ready ever). One year later, they married and, at last report, are still very happily married. They credit this book for clarifying their relationship and putting them on the right foot.
I should point out again that it focuses on young couples. It's advice, while still useful, tends to be a little too black and white for older couples. For example, it says that a person who is divorced is very unlikely to make a good marriage partner. While this may be true (and is almost assuredly true for a young person), it is not helpful information to a person who has been divorced or for an older person selecting a partner (the choices being a much younger person, a person who can't commit, a divorcee, and a person who lost their spouse).
I believe it is a must read for someone in their twenties getting married (along with "Good Marriages" - a must read for everyone entering a marriage). It is a useful read in your thirties. You have to pick and choose if you are older.
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If Only I'd Known This Earlier!
Rating  (4)
Date: 2003-03-25
2 out of 2 customers found this reveiw helpful
I was very impressed with the book, "Should We Stay Together" by Mr. Larson which is bascially a summary of all his research gained from testing of his RELATE Premarital Questionnaire. As a result sometimes the read can get bogged down in how this is just that, and lead you to say can you just get to the point. Overall it was a great source of informaiton, especially the questions that you should answer yourself and with your partner. I know it made me realize a few things about my partner I didn't know before. It uses a triangular method that seems straight forward enough, but there's more to it than you'd think! It leaves nothing to chance, and makes you question those things hidden in your closet and your partners'to give you a real picture of whether or not your relationship should go on, is worth saving, or should be dissolved ASAP.
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Who Doesn't Know This Stuff, Already?
Rating  (3)
Date: 2000-08-22
36 out of 39 customers found this reveiw helpful
I found this book to be easy reading. Most of the research discussed comes as little surprise. It is quite obvious to this reader that disagreements over key issues such as whether or not to have children, the wife's role in the marriage, premarital sex, and so on, would be a compelling arguement not to get married. I found myself skipping over many of the tests because my partner and I have already discussed the issues presented and I didn't need to know where he stood on them or vice versa.Anyone who would have the good sense to question whether or not they should make a lifetime committment to their partner would have the common sense to know that the issues brought forth in this book are important. For everyone else - the folks who marry with their eyes closed - this book would definately be a good guide. This book is a worthwhile read if you have trouble broaching personal issues with your mate. Many of the subjects discussed could be considered controversial in some relationships. My boyfriend, an easy-going guy with an open minded approach to our relationship, thought the idea of cosmo-like tests to see if we were meant for eachother was a little lame. He played along :)
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Great book for Gen Xers in love
Rating (3)
Date: 2000-08-04
19 out of 24 customers found this reveiw helpful
This is an excellent book for those ready to take the premature plunge under the age of 30. However, those of us over 30 may not find his advice applicable (i.e. At 38, it's difficult to find individuals that have NOT had multiple sex partners.) An easy read, this book focuses on the many issues that should be dealt with before making a life altering decision. I would highly recommend this to my younger brother.
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Finally - a useful book on relationships!
Rating (4)
Date: 2000-07-26
34 out of 36 customers found this reveiw helpful
This is an amazingly easy to read book - it also provides analytical, well researched information on a problem that a lot of us struggle with - finding the right spouse.I personally don't read many self-help books and get turned off by test-your-relationship quizzes, but surprisingly this book does a very good job of putting across well researched ideas about premarital indications for a good marriage. It seems to be based on solid research done by social scientists. I like the way the author potrays the book as the "Consumer Reports" for marriage preparation. The part I liked best was the explanation of myths about marriage -some of them were common sense, but others were interesting revelations that can potentially help you see hidden shades of your relationship. On the flip side, maybe there were too many quizzes and the author seems to make a big deal about premarital counselling, seeking the experts, etc. But, for a book on relationships, Jeffrey Larson provides a lot of useful information that one could use to choose a better spouse. Overall, for those of us that like to give ourselves a better than even chance at a successful marriage - this is a $20 well spent.
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by Jeffry H. Larson
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Jossey-Bass (2000-05)
ISBN: 0787951447
EAN: 9780787951443
Dewy Decimal #: 306.81
Paperback: 256 pages
Edition: 1
SKU: 102608028
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: ...no markings or highlighting...minor wear on cover
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Product Description
The fact is, some couples need more time to mature, some need to work through specific issues, and some should never be together. But how do you know? What factors add up to success-or failure-in a relationship? Author Jeffry Larson knows; in fact, he knows a lot about what predicts a happy marriage. Based on Larson's twenty-plus years of research and experience in marriage and family therapy, Should We Stay Together?debunks many time-honored myths as it provides couples with the tools they need to make better decisions and thoroughly explore every aspect of their relationship. From individual characteristics, idiosyncratic family histories, unresolved conflicts and needs, and combined strengths and weaknesses, this step-by-step scientific method for relationship evaluation-based on the highly accurate RELATE premarital assessment questionnaire-will help couples understand the specific traits that predict a satisfying-or disastrous-relationship.
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Amazon.com Review
Falling in love is the easy part; finding a truly compatible mate takes know-how. Drawing from a 10-year study of premarital characteristics that predict later marital satisfaction, author Jeffry H. Larson presents an excellent resource for couples considering marriage. Opening chapters debunk the many myths associated with happy relationships, everything from searching for soul mates to obeying the whims of the heart. Larson points to three key factors that affect all partnerships: contexts (each person's background), individual traits, and couple traits; he then shows how similarities and differences in each category lead to success or failure in marriage. By far the most intriguing aspect of this combination textbook and workbook is its series of checklists, discussion questions, and short tests designed for assessing one's relationship. Working alone or with their partners, readers can rather quickly determine the potential long-term satisfaction of their current relationships, based on the 24 key characteristics outlined in Larson's Relationship Evaluation (RELATE) questionnaire. Brief questions regarding similarity of values, communication skills, and conflict response patterns receive points that correspond to an evaluation scale. Larson concludes each exercise with plenty of clear, descriptive support material so participants can better interpret their test scores. For those who uncover a few bumps in their RELATE triangle, a final chapter offers an abundance of self-help and couples' therapy books, tapes, and workshops. --Liane Thomas
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Excellent resource for important decision
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-09-04
1 out of 1 customers found this reveiw helpful
While this book was recommended to me during a marital crisis (which led to my divorce), I consider the book's title to be somewhat misleading. It's intended audience is young couples considering _when_ to get married. It discusses many factors which are important for a successful (read "long-lived") marriage, especially issues that should be worked out before the wedding. It uses quantitative research to identify these factors.
While it was extremely helpful when helping me to understand why I was in the situation I found myself, it's real power became obvious to me when I recommended it to a friend. She was engaged to be married in a couple months and was getting a bad case of cold feet. It was clear to me that, while she had several legitimate concerns, it was not clear if the marriage should happen or not. She read the book, cover-to-cover, in about a week. She also managed to get her fiance to read it. After this, they decided that they were not ready to be married _but_ they would be some day (a key concept in the book - not ready now does not mean not ready ever). One year later, they married and, at last report, are still very happily married. They credit this book for clarifying their relationship and putting them on the right foot.
I should point out again that it focuses on young couples. It's advice, while still useful, tends to be a little too black and white for older couples. For example, it says that a person who is divorced is very unlikely to make a good marriage partner. While this may be true (and is almost assuredly true for a young person), it is not helpful information to a person who has been divorced or for an older person selecting a partner (the choices being a much younger person, a person who can't commit, a divorcee, and a person who lost their spouse).
I believe it is a must read for someone in their twenties getting married (along with "Good Marriages" - a must read for everyone entering a marriage). It is a useful read in your thirties. You have to pick and choose if you are older.
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If Only I'd Known This Earlier!
Rating (4)
Date: 2003-03-25
2 out of 2 customers found this reveiw helpful
I was very impressed with the book, "Should We Stay Together" by Mr. Larson which is bascially a summary of all his research gained from testing of his RELATE Premarital Questionnaire. As a result sometimes the read can get bogged down in how this is just that, and lead you to say can you just get to the point. Overall it was a great source of informaiton, especially the questions that you should answer yourself and with your partner. I know it made me realize a few things about my partner I didn't know before. It uses a triangular method that seems straight forward enough, but there's more to it than you'd think! It leaves nothing to chance, and makes you question those things hidden in your closet and your partners'to give you a real picture of whether or not your relationship should go on, is worth saving, or should be dissolved ASAP.
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Who Doesn't Know This Stuff, Already?
Rating (3)
Date: 2000-08-22
36 out of 39 customers found this reveiw helpful
I found this book to be easy reading. Most of the research discussed comes as little surprise. It is quite obvious to this reader that disagreements over key issues such as whether or not to have children, the wife's role in the marriage, premarital sex, and so on, would be a compelling arguement not to get married. I found myself skipping over many of the tests because my partner and I have already discussed the issues presented and I didn't need to know where he stood on them or vice versa.Anyone who would have the good sense to question whether or not they should make a lifetime committment to their partner would have the common sense to know that the issues brought forth in this book are important. For everyone else - the folks who marry with their eyes closed - this book would definately be a good guide. This book is a worthwhile read if you have trouble broaching personal issues with your mate. Many of the subjects discussed could be considered controversial in some relationships. My boyfriend, an easy-going guy with an open minded approach to our relationship, thought the idea of cosmo-like tests to see if we were meant for eachother was a little lame. He played along :)
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Great book for Gen Xers in love
Rating (3)
Date: 2000-08-04
19 out of 24 customers found this reveiw helpful
This is an excellent book for those ready to take the premature plunge under the age of 30. However, those of us over 30 may not find his advice applicable (i.e. At 38, it's difficult to find individuals that have NOT had multiple sex partners.) An easy read, this book focuses on the many issues that should be dealt with before making a life altering decision. I would highly recommend this to my younger brother.
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Finally - a useful book on relationships!
Rating (4)
Date: 2000-07-26
34 out of 36 customers found this reveiw helpful
This is an amazingly easy to read book - it also provides analytical, well researched information on a problem that a lot of us struggle with - finding the right spouse.I personally don't read many self-help books and get turned off by test-your-relationship quizzes, but surprisingly this book does a very good job of putting across well researched ideas about premarital indications for a good marriage. It seems to be based on solid research done by social scientists. I like the way the author potrays the book as the "Consumer Reports" for marriage preparation. The part I liked best was the explanation of myths about marriage -some of them were common sense, but others were interesting revelations that can potentially help you see hidden shades of your relationship. On the flip side, maybe there were too many quizzes and the author seems to make a big deal about premarital counselling, seeking the experts, etc. But, for a book on relationships, Jeffrey Larson provides a lot of useful information that one could use to choose a better spouse. Overall, for those of us that like to give ourselves a better than even chance at a successful marriage - this is a $20 well spent.
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by Nathaniel Branden
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Bantam (1994-02-01)
ISBN: 0553095293
EAN: 9780553095296
Dewy Decimal #: 155.2
Hardcover: 346 pages
Release Date: 1994-02-01
SKU: 071608030
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: ...No noticeable Underlining or Highlighting...minor wear on cover
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The psychotherapist-author of The Psychology of Self-Esteem demonstrates the role of self-esteem in psychological health and presents six action-based practices that provide a foundation for daily life. 35,000 first printing. $35,000 ad/promo.
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Well written, clearly full of good content...
Rating (3)
Date: 2008-05-08
I've been reading this book a little bit each day for the last couple weeks. I've been having issues with self-esteem for years, though nothing I'd call serious. Was looking for a book written on the subject by an authority and above all was looking for steps or tactics to improve self-esteem.
I'm probably a third through the book and what I have read I agree with. However, I find myself reading it and saying to myself "Yes. This is correct...I agree with this. This explains my situation." However I'm left thinking "Now how can I really address this?" Because I am impatient I turned to the back and found the 31 week (yes, 31 weeks!) sentence completion process and started that while I'm in the process of reading. I'm going to stick with it through completion...but I must admit I hope it does not take me this long to achieve some greater improvment in my self-esteem. Call me too impatient, if you wish. Its a well written book, as stated.
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six pillars of self esteem
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-02-25
0 out of 1 customers found this reveiw helpful
Glad I bought this book. I will reread it many times. It was very meaningfull to me.
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Mandatory Reading For Everyone
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-10-21
1 out of 2 customers found this reveiw helpful
I have the abridged audio version and recommend that and this review is about that in particular.
There are perhaps about 20 books that can be considered mandatory reading for all humans. This is one of them. Probably in the top 5. Get it? Got it? 'Nuff said. And do the 31 week excercises. You'll find them in the back of the paper book.
If you want to hem and haw, find excuses not to get it or whatever...fine. Go your merry blissfully ignorant way. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
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The only book you need
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-09-30
2 out of 2 customers found this reveiw helpful
I've read hundreds of self-help books. When I first read this book 10 years ago, it changed my life. No other book had that power. It gave me the insight to heal all my emotional problems. Partially because this book poses no "short cuts" and is very real. Any negative reviews on here--I've noticed--were written by people who didn't really read the book.
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Learn from this expert
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-09-02
3 out of 3 customers found this reveiw helpful
In every field, some books are considered classics. That's the case with The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem.
I bought this book when it first came out, have read it a couple times, and keep it in a bookcase with other valuable books that I re-read every few years. I think it's so important I recently bought it as a gift for my best friend.
One of the most important truths you will ever learn is in this book: "No one is coming to rescue me. If I don't DO something, nothing is going to change." Branden elaborates further, but that advice alone is worth the price of the book. If you sink that truth deep into your life and become your own rescuer, believe me, your life WILL change.
My only criticism of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem is a personal one. Most of my self-esteem comes from my relationship with God. But this is a secular, not a Christian book, so I didn't really expect to hear that.
This is not fluff. It's not New Age silliness. It's solid, crucial information that will help you live a happier life. If you're trying to build or repair your self-esteem, you need this book.
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by Nathaniel Branden
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Bantam (1994-02-01)
ISBN: 0553095293
EAN: 9780553095296
Dewy Decimal #: 155.2
Hardcover: 346 pages
Release Date: 1994-02-01
SKU: 071608030
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: ...No noticeable Underlining or Highlighting...minor wear on cover
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The psychotherapist-author of The Psychology of Self-Esteem demonstrates the role of self-esteem in psychological health and presents six action-based practices that provide a foundation for daily life. 35,000 first printing. $35,000 ad/promo.
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Well written, clearly full of good content...
Rating (3)
Date: 2008-05-08
I've been reading this book a little bit each day for the last couple weeks. I've been having issues with self-esteem for years, though nothing I'd call serious. Was looking for a book written on the subject by an authority and above all was looking for steps or tactics to improve self-esteem.
I'm probably a third through the book and what I have read I agree with. However, I find myself reading it and saying to myself "Yes. This is correct...I agree with this. This explains my situation." However I'm left thinking "Now how can I really address this?" Because I am impatient I turned to the back and found the 31 week (yes, 31 weeks!) sentence completion process and started that while I'm in the process of reading. I'm going to stick with it through completion...but I must admit I hope it does not take me this long to achieve some greater improvment in my self-esteem. Call me too impatient, if you wish. Its a well written book, as stated.
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six pillars of self esteem
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-02-25
0 out of 1 customers found this reveiw helpful
Glad I bought this book. I will reread it many times. It was very meaningfull to me.
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Mandatory Reading For Everyone
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-10-21
1 out of 2 customers found this reveiw helpful
I have the abridged audio version and recommend that and this review is about that in particular.
There are perhaps about 20 books that can be considered mandatory reading for all humans. This is one of them. Probably in the top 5. Get it? Got it? 'Nuff said. And do the 31 week excercises. You'll find them in the back of the paper book.
If you want to hem and haw, find excuses not to get it or whatever...fine. Go your merry blissfully ignorant way. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
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The only book you need
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-09-30
2 out of 2 customers found this reveiw helpful
I've read hundreds of self-help books. When I first read this book 10 years ago, it changed my life. No other book had that power. It gave me the insight to heal all my emotional problems. Partially because this book poses no "short cuts" and is very real. Any negative reviews on here--I've noticed--were written by people who didn't really read the book.
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Learn from this expert
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-09-02
3 out of 3 customers found this reveiw helpful
In every field, some books are considered classics. That's the case with The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem.
I bought this book when it first came out, have read it a couple times, and keep it in a bookcase with other valuable books that I re-read every few years. I think it's so important I recently bought it as a gift for my best friend.
One of the most important truths you will ever learn is in this book: "No one is coming to rescue me. If I don't DO something, nothing is going to change." Branden elaborates further, but that advice alone is worth the price of the book. If you sink that truth deep into your life and become your own rescuer, believe me, your life WILL change.
My only criticism of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem is a personal one. Most of my self-esteem comes from my relationship with God. But this is a secular, not a Christian book, so I didn't really expect to hear that.
This is not fluff. It's not New Age silliness. It's solid, crucial information that will help you live a happier life. If you're trying to build or repair your self-esteem, you need this book.
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by Richard Webster
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Llewellyn Publications (2001-01-01)
ISBN: 1567187897
EAN: 9781567187892
Dewy Decimal #: 133.9
Paperback: 240 pages
SKU: 102908030
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: ...no markings or highlighting...minor wear on cover
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The incredible soul mate connection allows you and your partner to progress even further with your soul's growth and development with each incarnation. After reading examples of soul mates from the author's practice, you will learn how to recall your past lives. In addition, you will gain valuable tips on how to strengthen your relationship so it grows stronger and better as time goes by.
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Across the edge of Time
Rating (4)
Date: 2007-12-08
Love is the real key here in understanding the connections that cross the barriers of Time. This book, Soul Mates, is a worthy experience in reading many true stories about amazing connections of the heart. It is not overly deep. Yet it says what it should about the uncanny echoes from past-life recall. If you are looking for an easy read that will help you find your own soul mate connection it is one of them.
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Very Interesting!
Rating (4)
Date: 2007-10-10
Basically just verified what I had always felt, we find what we are prepared to seek.
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BOOK IN EXCELLENT CONDITION/PROMPT DELIVERY
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-03-22
0 out of 7 customers found this reveiw helpful
The books arrived promptly and in GREAT condition. who can ask for anything more? Michael Dennis
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My eyes are opened.
Rating (5)
Date: 2006-12-03
6 out of 8 customers found this reveiw helpful
I love this book. I want my friend to read it, but don't want to give up my only copy. I'll probably buy her one of her own for Christmas. This doesn't just go over finding soul mates and finding love, it also talks of reincarnation, and karma.
It opened my eyes to the fact that the struggles we face in this life are because of things we did or didn't do in our past lives. Mr. Webster also talks about when we do find our soul mate, the fact that he or she is our soul mate doesn't just insure that we will be together forever. Like anything you still have to work at it, even if you are supposed to be together.
I want to read it over and over again. I plan to use some of the technics for hypnotising myself and see if I can't catch a glimse of my past lives, so I am better prepared for this one. This book has even pushed me to look for a therapist specializing in past lives in my own area.
Great book. If you have any thoughts on reincarnation, karma, and your soul mate over many lifetimes, then you should get this book. It's a must read.
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For everyone in search of real love, and those who've found it.
Rating (5)
Date: 2006-07-31
12 out of 12 customers found this reveiw helpful
This is an AMAZING book! I cannot praise it highly enough. I am currently reading it for the second time, and don't doubt that I will read it many more times, simply because it is both informative and encouraging. Webster reassures us that there really is someone out there for everyone, and that all we need to do is prepare ourselves on the five levels, and remain positively expectant. Our own karmic bond with the other person will do the rest. He includes stories about numerous people he has taken back to their past lives, as well as helpful explanations of the law of karma, the history of past lives, and what a soul mate actually is. There are also various exercises to release any baggage that may be standing in your way, and to strengthen your magnetic connection with your soul mate, whom you may not have met.
I have read many books on relationships and how to make them work, and none of them have been more helpful, more reassuring, or simpler than this one. It comes VERY highly recommended by me! If you have been in search of a well rounded, well written book on the subject of soul mates, your quest will end here.
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by Robert James Wlodarski
Product Group: Book
Publisher: G-HOST Pub (2002)
ISBN: 0964908867
EAN: 9780964908864
Unknown Binding: 134 pages
SKU: 081208007
Condition: Used: Very Good
Comments: ...No noticeable Underlining or Highlighting...looks to be an autographed copy...excellent condition
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by Catherine Chapman
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Paulist Press (1992-11)
ISBN: 0809133407
EAN: 9780809133406
Dewy Decimal #: 248.86
Paperback: 103 pages
SKU: 072108016
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: ...No noticeable Underlining or Highlighting...heavy shelf wear on cover
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by Timothy E. Wilens
Product Group: Book
Publisher: The Guilford Press (2002-11-01)
ISBN: 1572302046
EAN: 9781572302044
Dewy Decimal #: 618.928918
Paperback: 280 pages
SKU: 051308026
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: very helpful resource....No Underlining or Highlighting...
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When is psychiatric medication the right choice for kids? Which side effects may be cause for concern? Does medication affect kids' personalities? What are the alternatives? Can medication lead to drug abuse?
Psychiatric medications are being used with increasing confidence to treat a variety of child and adolescent disorders, including depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and Tourette syndrome. For parents, however, deciding whether to allow a child to take medication for an emotional or behavioral problem may be one of the toughest choices they will ever face. When a son or daughter needs help, parents need more than a brief medical consultation--and more than a prescription slip.
This essential book provides the up-to-date information that will enable readers to fully understand what their child's doctor is recommending, and what their options are. With loads of real-life examples, answers to frequently asked questions, and helpful tables and charts, Harvard University researcher and practitioner Dr. Timothy Wilens explains which medications may be prescribed for children, and why; examines effects on children's health, emotions, and school performance; and helps readers become active, informed managers of their child's care.
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Medicines you want to know about
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-08-15
This book tells you what you need to know about those meds your children are prescribed.
Barbara V
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Great info on meds
Rating (5)
Date: 2003-07-16
3 out of 4 customers found this reveiw helpful
Medication is one of the scariest aspects of treating childhood mental illness. This book provides a wealth of easily understood information. This is a great book that should be used in combination with other books that help parents handle the other aspects of treating their children's disorders. Two I recommend for Bipolar Disorder are "If Your Child is Bipolar" and "The Bipolar Child." The more helpful resources out there the better. These are books that should definately be on parents' shelves.
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An excellent source of information about medication choices
Rating (5)
Date: 2002-03-29
27 out of 27 customers found this reveiw helpful
It can be overwhelming and confusing to try and figure out which drug is best for a particular child with a special condition. This book explores all sorts of psychiatric drugs for conditions ranging from Attention Deficit Disorder to depression, bipolar disorder, etc. Each section is clear and each medication is discussed fully, including possible side effects. I've often felt like doctors haven't fully answered my questions about certain medications but this book helped me to fill in the gaps and feel confident about the choices I made for my child. The best book on the subject I've found so far (and I've looked at quite a few books).
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Basic help for the parent with a mentally ill child
Rating (5)
Date: 2001-10-22
18 out of 20 customers found this reveiw helpful
I highly recommend this book to any parent who is contemplating putting their child on psychiatric medications. My child has been struggling on/off for the past three years with a number of issues that finally lead to an evaluation for psychiatric medication. The psychiatrist, while skilled, is unable to provide the support and education necessary to the parent to make this major decision an easier one. This book filled in the gaps. It was extremely readable and provided very helpful information regarding the various disorders and the preferred medications for treatment. While I have not yet decided to place my child on medication, this book will make the decision making process much easier.
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A useful book for both parents and professionals
Rating (5)
Date: 2001-05-20
32 out of 32 customers found this reveiw helpful
When parents want to know more about medications for their child's disorder, I often refer them to this book. The book is organized by type of disorder (such as AD/HD, depression or anxiety) and by type of medication. This is good because some people want to know about a specific class of medications, while others want an overview of medication strategies for a particular disorder. I particularly liked his suggestions on communication between parent and psychiatrist. This should help parents formulate their questions and feel comfortable asking them. This book is also an excellent overview for medical residents and non-medical mental health professionals.
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by Richard O. Straub, Kathleen Stassen Berger
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Worth Publishers (2002-11-07)
ISBN: 0716752824
EAN: 9780716752820
Dewy Decimal #: 150
Paperback: 256 pages
Edition: 6th
SKU: 091708017
Condition: Used: Acceptable
Comments: some writing on a few pages...edge wear on cover
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Product Description
This text presents theory, research, practical examples, and controversial issues in a way that should inspire students to think about development, addressing the individual's role in both the community and the wider world. Berger's academic background, focus on current research, writing style and commitment to students combine to make this textbook a useful teaching tool.
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Excellent
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-10-28
This book came in excellent condition and came before I expected for it to come.
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WOW...
Rating  (1)
Date: 2008-10-23
I am trying to get through this book...it is like i am reading a DICTIONARY! It is horrible.
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The Developing Person Through Childhood and Adolescence
Rating (1)
Date: 2008-10-02
Purchased book on Aug. 31st and as of Oct 2nd have not received it. Seller hasn't responded to my e-mail questioning the whereabouts of the book. At this point, I would prefer a refund.
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book shipment
Rating (1)
Date: 2008-09-20
the book is STILL not here....exactly 1 month and 1 day later..this is ridiculous..im pissed
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Not bad for a textbook!
Rating (4)
Date: 2008-09-05
I like how the author has broken down the different chapters. As with most textbooks there are a few areas that sort of drag on, especially the intro chapters, but mostly due to them giving you a background and history of Child Development. As you start breaking into the other chapters the information gets much more interested and it starts to read faster. I had to get this book for a class I was taking, but I found the information also useful in my personal life. All in all, not bad for a textbook!
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by E. Fuller Torrey
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Collins Living (2001-05-08)
ISBN: 0060959193
EAN: 9780060959197
Dewy Decimal #: 616.8982
Paperback: 544 pages
Edition: 4th
Release Date: 2001-05-08
SKU: 092208058
Condition: Used: Good
Comments: exlibrary copy in good condition with the usual markings and stickers
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Since its first publication nearly twenty years ago, Surviving Schizophrenia has become the standard reference book on the disease, helping thousands of patients, families, and mental health professionals to better deal with the condition. In clear and compassionate language, Dr. E. Fuller Torrey explains the nature causes, symptoms, and treatment of this often misunderstood illness. The classic guide also addresses the many issues of living with the disease, for both patient and family, and includes the latest research findings on the causes of and treatments for schizophrenia. Also here are lucid answers to the questions most commonly asked by families, consumers, and providers. This fully revised fourth edition of Surviving Schizophrenia is a must-have for the multitude of people affected -- both directly and indirectly -- by this serious, yet treatable, disorder.
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Very helpful
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-10-24
We found this book to be quite educational and overall very helpful. Having said that, in places it gives far more medical information than we could grasp / digest.
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Outdated, Somewhat Helpful but Incomplete
Rating (3)
Date: 2008-10-12
3 out of 3 customers found this reveiw helpful
This book has a little bit of everything... from history of schizophrenia to progresses in modern treatment. But for someone who wanted a greater insight into how I can better help a schizophrenic, it wasn't very helpful. For example, this book barely touches on how to get those afflicted with schizophrenia to take medication when they deny their illness and refuse their medication. How do you get them to see a doctor when they don't want to? How often should you go to the doctor? Also, how do you best communicate with schizophenics - do you tell them that the voices in their head and the evil man following them aren't real? When they insist they have telepathic powers, do I disagree and explain why it isn't so, shrug it off, or just indulge them? If they don't want to talk about it or deny they have schizophrenia, should I bring it up? How do you help those who tried to commit suicide and failed - should I ask why they did it? Is it safe to bring it up when they seem to have forgotten about the incident? Also, Dr. Torrey, at times, seemed more interested in making the book entertaining than being sensitive to this disease (such as using inappropriate punctuation marks or jumping to conclusions without explaining the factual basis). He also doesn't explain certain terms - such as insight psychotherapy (he explains why it's bad but I read the entire passage 3x but no explanation of what insight psychotherapy is). With the rave reviews, I expected more from this book. If anyone is aware of a book that addresses my questions above (and answers the question of how family members can help and better communicate with schizophrenics other than generically be "supportive", which is a given...), please let me know. I would appreciate a good recommendation.
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Truly excellent resource
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-08-17
What an incredible resource!!! This truly is a book for consumers, providers, and families. As a provider, I learned some things that have given me a new way to look at my consumers and their treatment. It is also written in a way that makes it an invaluable resource to both individuals with Schizophrenia, and those close to them. I highly recommend this to anyone looking to learn more about Schizophrenia, it's possible origins, history, prognosis, treatments, and so much more.
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Survive Schizophrenia
Rating (4)
Date: 2008-06-04
an excellant book for recognizing and understanding the disease. A must read for parents, family and friends.
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Helpful Information
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-05-12
I found this helpful for understanding the basic information about schizophrenia and it had some useful chapters on signs to look for and treatments. It may be a little outdated with some of the new drugs that are coming out now, but overall its a good reference book to have.
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